For me, Christmastime is always filled with sweet memories of my big Italian Family. Back in the day on Christmas Eve my family and I, along with my Grandma and Grandpa, Aunts, Uncles, and cousins, would all gather at my Aunt Lucy’s home. The faces I loved gleamed around the long lace-covered table, as we enjoyed homemade Spaghetti and Meatballs…or “meat-a-balls” like my Sicilian Grandma and Grandpa would say! There would be lots of loud conversation and laughter which I’m sure looked like a whole lot of happy chaos if someone were to peek into the window!
(I’m the little girl standing to the right of my Grandpa, seated with my grandma, with the headband on. Aunt Gen is on the far left, in the black dress, standing with my Uncle Al. My Mama is on the right side, second lady to the left.)
After tummies were filled, us kids ran off into another room to play “Button, Button, Who’s Got the Button”, while my mom, my aunts and Grandma would tie their aprons on to clear the table, wash the dishes and turn the electric Coffee Percolator on. Once the kitchen was tidy and the coffee was fresh and hot, a huge tray of Italian cookies was carried to the table. Biscotti, Gemelli, Anisette, Pizzelles, Nut Meringues, just to name a few of the variety these delicious, Southern Italy confections.
Aunt Genevieve (Gen) Cannizzaro is pictured above. Aunt Gen was famous for her baking and cooking. She made 100’s of Wedding Cakes including mine! She also opened her home to multiple foreign exchange students over the years. Such a loving and caring Mama.
As soon as my cousins and I realized the cookies had been set out we rushed to the table to grab a handful. I would search through the mountain of sweet treats to find my favorite…Aunt Gen’s Italian Date Nut Bars. Sweet, chewy with a bit of crunch. One bite and I was in Christmas heaven!
Our Christmas Eve tradition also included a skit about the Birth of Jesus presented by my cousins and I, wearing bathrobes and teatowels as costumes. Soon after, we all gathered around the piano as my mother played, to sing old time carols, Silent Night, O Little Town of Bethlehem and Jingle Bells. My Uncle Joe, who was the life of the party and a talented singer, would grace us with a solo of such as Ava Maria.
When it was time to say our goodbyes, with hugs and kisses, we stepped out into the dark, chilly night to get into our cars for the drive home. My little girl heart was filled to the brim with treasures of comfort and joy, as I sleepily reflected upon all the crazy fun with my cousins and the scenes of my loved ones around the table where we feasted upon God’s goodness. These are the memories that have lasted me a lifetime.
- 3 eggs
- ⅛ teaspoon or a pinch of salt
- 1 cup sugar
- 1 cup flour
- 1 cup minced dates
- 1 cup chopped walnuts
- 2 teaspoons Baking Powder
- 1 Tablespoon Vanilla
- Powdered Sugar to sprinkle after baking
- Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
- Mix all ingredients well. (I use my stand mixer).
- Pour into a buttered 9 x 13 glass pan and spread evenly with rubber spatula.
- Bake at 350 for 25 minutes
- Once cooled, cut into squares and sprinkle the top liberally with powdered sugar.
Directions:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
Mix all ingredients well. (I use my standing mixer).
Pour into a buttered 9 x 13 glass pan and spread evenly with rubber spatula.
Bake at 350 for 25 minutes
Once cooled, cut into squares and sprinkle the top liberally with powdered sugar.
God bless you and Buon Natale! (Merry Christmas in Italian!)
~Ruthie
Traditions are blessings to be cherished and thank your sharing yours! The Date Nut bars sound yummy… I’m going to make them this week!
Hi Aunt Ruthie, I am also from Italian heritage and they were the best and warmest memories. Of course, I knew all the cookies you mentioned and will try Aunt Gen’s recipe. Many blessings this Christmas to you and yours and thank you for sharing! Buon Natale
Thank you for sharing your wonderful memories and recipe from Aunt Gen! I’ll be sure to try it this Christmas.
*Heart* *HUGS* love this story, yesterday was my Aunt Betty’s funeral, 94 years old Loved beyond words…I will be making one of her recipes this Christmas …because I want to remember her in that way. Love your story of Family…touched my heart in a special way today. Thank you!
The recipe sounds wonderful and I love to read the stories about family and traditions. You pointed out your aunt – where is your mom in the picture?
Have a blessed holiday with your family!
I will buy some dates and try this thank you for sharing
Can’t wait to make these. I love dates. These definitely will be part of my Christmas Eve with my family. Thank you for all your wonderful posts. I love reading about your family and appreciate all your wonderful ideas. Wishing you and yours a blessed holiday. Another Ruthie in Minnesota
Thanks for sharing your sweet, family memories and recipes with us. Can’t wait to try the recipe.
Looks wonderful ! I have dates too ! Right now ! Ha ! Will make these ! Thanks ! Blessings,Cindy Lou Hoo !!!
Oh! Forgot to say what a wonderful story of your beautiful family ! You are truly blessed !!
Thank you for sharing your memories with us. I love hearing about Christmas memories.
Thanks so much for the recipe. Being Italian brings back so many memories of my mother and Aunts baking in the kitchen around the holidays. My mom who is still living and just turned 101 on Nov. 20th is not able to bake or cook anymore but she left me with so many traditions and a heritage blessed with so many memories I will cherish through my life.
I look at the picture of the Betty Crocker cookbook and it brought tears of joy to my eyes. Mom loved that old cookbook and I still have it with all her little notes of love to her daughters on how good the recipe was and some changes she added always tweaking to make a recipe her own. I will definitely try this recipe.
and bless you and your family on the holidays and throughout the years. Hugs Paulette
Love your photo—looks like my Italian family! And your Grandma looks exactly like my aunt Nina!!
Such wonderful memories—Thank you and for the date and nut bars, my mom made date and nut loaves. Loved them.I am going to make your bars, Thanks—-have a wonderful Christmas.
Ann
i love family i loved getting together and the food was out of this world wish sometimes could go back those memories are so special i couldnt wait to be able to drink coffee and listen to the stories being told
I LOVE your stories about your family,sounds just like my own My Mother also made wedding cakes & mounds of cookies for all the holidays. reading you post brings back many Happy Memories.
God Bless You & Your Family. Ann H.
Your big Italian family picture looks just like our big Italian family photo! Thanks so much for the recipe. I am going to make them!
Such a good flavour … Serve warm to enhance its yummyness
I picked you out of all the people in the family photo! Looks just like your babies did at that age. I can’t wait to try the date nut bars.
I love your family picture. All the little girls in dresses and patent leather shoes. I bet their hair was curled with bobby pins! Merry Christmas !
May I use self rising flour? I don’t like the taste of baking powder.
Thanks for your help.
Merry Christmas!
Molly
Made this recipe this morning to take to a get together tomorrow. I love how they are super easy to make and took no time to bake. They smelled amazing while they were in oven! I hope everyone enjoys them :)
What a wonderful srory! Can’t wait to make Aunt gens date bars!! Tha ks for sharing…Happy Holidays!
I am of Italian heritage also and I remember date nut bars also. So like the ones that you bake. I can’t wait to try these, I know my family will love it.
God bless you.