Proverbs 31, starting at verse 10, reveals the essence of the kind of woman we should strive to be. The kind of woman who is faithful, loving, exemplary, moral, wholesome, capable, intelligent, kind, and nurturing. She has a servants heart. She does not have an it’s-all-about-me mindset.
She does take care of herself though, she dreams her dreams, she loves to be creative and enjoys her life and she’s as cute as a cupcake, but not at the expense and neglect of her family.
Here are just a few things the Word of God says about the virtuous woman…”she’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day…she looks over a field and buys it, then with money she’s put aside, plants a garden…First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started…she senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day…she’s skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, diligent in homemaking…she’s quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to the poor…she doesn’t worry about her family when it snows; their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear…her clothes are well-made and elegant, and she always faces tomorrow with a smile…when she speaks she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly…her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise…” (Proverbs 31–the Message Translation—–and this is just part of the list!)
Well, this little ‘Ol Italian, pie-makin’, southern girl wanna-be, has a looooooong way to go to fit into Miss Proverbs 31’s cute shoes! But I’m trying!
Like today for instance, ever since the Holidays, my pantry has been a disaster…not a good thing when it’s out in the open for all to see. My motivation was the approaching storm. After clearing the clutter, discarding expired items, and wiping down shelves, I got my pantry all stocked up and organized for the winter season. It’s a mighty good feeling….in fact it makes me feel so good, that I go in there for no reason, other than, to see how clean it is now! I Love it! Now I can see what I’ve got, so I don’t go out and buy a fourth bottle of Ketchup!
So, if you need to come over to borrow a cup of sugar,
I’ve got it, and I can find it!
Plus the makings for soup… chili…
skillet baked spaghetti…
pancakes… cupcakes…
pie of course….
tuna sandwiches…blueberry muffins…
you know, emergency food…
just to name a few.
Getting my pantry prepared for the storm reminded me about preparing the pantry of my heart for the storms of life. When the icy winds of disappointment, discouragement and despair blow through our life, if we are not prepared spiritually and emotionally, they can really knock us down. We all face difficult times, in fact Jesus said “Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)
Thankfully, we have our loving God and His wonderful promises to lean on:
“The Lord Himself goes before you and will be with you: He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid: do not be discouraged.” Deut. 31:8
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and he shall direct your path.” Proverbs.3:5,6
“Is anyone crying for help? God is listening, ready to rescue you. If your heart is broken, you’ll find God right there. If you’re kicked in the gut, he’ll help you catch your breath.”
Psalm 34:17-18-The Message
I would like to share with you things that I do daily to stay prepared for what may come my way…so I can stand strong in the storm. Store them in the pantry of your heart:
- God’s Presence– Keep a moment by moment connection with Jesus… be aware of His presence… chat with Him throughout the day…thank Him for His goodness, mercy and grace. He loves you more than you could ever imagine!
- Prayer– throughout the day, release to God those concerns that are dear to your heart. Cover your family, and friends with prayer. Ask for wisdom. Spend time alone with Him daily.
- Promises- Read God’s Word…the Bible…highlight those scriptures that comfort your heart and give you strength. Hold onto those promises for dear life. By doing this you will receive wisdom, direction, and faith to trust God in all circumstances.
- Praise, Worship, Thanksgiving– Praise God for His awesomeness, and glory. Don’t focus on the storm, keep your eyes on the Lord, He is your rescuer and redeemer, He will carry you. He is not surprised by anything that comes your way. He’s got a plan for you. Thank Him for the wisdom, strength, and compassion you are going to gain, by having gone through it.
- Purity-strive to live an honorable life, obedient to God’s Word. As soon as you mess up, ask for forgiveness ( I pretty much have to do this daily), keep your slate clean. “Surely the arm of the Lord is not too short to save, nor His ear too dull to hear. But your iniquities have separated you from God; your sins have hidden His face from you so that He will not hear.” Isaiah 59:2 Everyday I ask God to “search my heart” to see if there is anything that I am doing that displeases Him (Psalm 139:23-24).
So clear away the clutter of fear and doubt in your heart. Stock up on God’s Word by memorizing scripture (make 3×5 flashcards!) , listening to praise music, inspirational sermons….and then PRAY! Believe, Trust and Be Committed to do these things and you will receive God’s blessings.
I always tell myself:
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This Too Shall Pass!
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No matter what happens, I still get to go to Heaven! (because my heart belongs to Jesus)
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The Best is yet to come!
No one said the Christian life was going to be easy…but hey the benefits are out of this world!
“Keep company with God. Get in on the best.”
Psalm 37:4 The Message
Girls, you are in my prayers! I know alot of you (wherever you are) are facing hard times. Hang in there. The sunshine will warm your face again.
Warm Pie, Happy Home,
is all about giving your best
to those you love.
Thanks for stopping by for pie!
Hugs!
Ruthann
Ruthann, that was exactly the thing that I needed to read! What an unexpected blessing.
Thank you for sharing what the Lord lays on your heart! I’m so thankful for you.
Love, Bri
Even though we have never met, I want you to know what a blessing you have been to my life.
God Bless,
Brenda
You have such a great insight as to what we all need to hear today.
I love your blog and all you put in it. I visit here every day.
Keep on keepin’ on!
Betty in Oklahoma
Ruthann! I have missed you terribly I haven’t blogged in a bit but now I am back! I just love your posts! Thank you Ruthann for your outlook on things…it always warms my heart!
Hugs,
Robyn
What a truly lovely, hardt-felt post, Ruthann. Thank you for touching *my* hardt so wonderfully.
Our Lord is so faithful to those who incline their ear to His voice. May my ear be always in tune with Him.
Love your pantry. ;o)
Ruthann,
Thank you for the “pep” talk! I too strive to be the Proverbs 31 woman, and I too have to work very hard at even putting a toe into that water – someday I hope to swim with grace!
Your blog is such an inspiration to me! Not to mention how charming your house is!!
I am new to your site and I just started a blog in January here:
https://www.homesteadblogger.com/HoneyHillFarm/
Please feel free to stop by and say hello!
Your new and already loyal reader,
Shan
Ruthann, Thank you for having me for pie and the words of wisdom. Your blog is a delight to visit!
I was wondering what shade of red you used to paint your rockers? I love that shade of red. Hope you are having a blessed weekend! I’ll be looking forward to our next visit! Gail
Dear Ruthann, I feel so blessed to have stumbled upon your wonderful blog. What an inspiration you are.
From your heartfelt encouragement to your beautiful home, you are what I aspire to be some day! Thank you for sharing yourself and your beautiful family.
Bonnye
And to this I want to say Amen. Ruthann well said. I count my blessings daily. Our heavenly father is so loving. No matter how many times we mess up, all we have to ask for is his forgiveness. Repent and do better next time. I love stopping by and getting my dose of spiritual inspiration. Just a grate way to start off this week. May you and your family have a blessed week. ~Huugs~ Nicole
Hello I just entered before I have to leave to the airport, it’s been very nice to meet you, if you want here is the site I told you about where I type some stuff and make good money (I work from home): here it is
Oh Ruth Ann, you spoke to my heart tonight. Thank You.
God Bless and glad you are safe and warm.
Hugs,
Debbie
Ruthann, thanks for visiting my blog…I was surprised to hear you knew about Menifee..not too many people do……you are right, it is a small world. thanks for the inspiring word too…as we are one of the struggling ones..God bless you
Brrrrrrrrrr
Stay warm.
Wonderful post. :-)
XOXO
So glad I found your blog! So beautiful and uplifting!!! The Lord sure knows how to bring us together, doesn’t He!!!! Thanks so much for all the pictures and the inpiring words, and the PIE!!!! Cora
Beautiful, thanks for thewarm words, janie
OH MY! This is the blog I have been looking for! I just can’t tell you how much I love your blog, off to take in more!
Dear Ruthann,
What a wonderful blessing this post has been…thank you for sharing what is in your heart…you are such a blessing!
Love, Kim
Hi! Where did you find you’re apple pie dish and cover with the cherry on top? I just adore it!!! M.
Ruthann, thank you for such an amazing post. As I was reading, I just wanted to say “Amen!” You are salt of the earth, and someone with whom I want to keep company! You are giving more than you know!
Love, Katie
Dear Ruthann: That darn Proverbs 31 woman. Who can live up to her? Tee hee! Proverbs is my favorite book of the bible. Thanks for the pantry eye candy. I’m cleaning and reorganizing mine too and appreciate your great tips.
Just checking in to be sure you got a package from me!Ü I sent you and email but hadnt heard so I thought I better check on it! It’s been almost two weeks – and I hoped it wasnt lost! Please let me know.
Great post Ruthann! You are truly inspiring. I appreciated the fact that you said you had to work on some of these things yourself. Kudos for cleaning the pantry! When I visit my Mom in MO, it is my daughterly duty to clean out her pantry…it is always easier to clean someone elses mess than my own!
My! My! What a beautiful blog I just happened upon. And, I could not even tell you how I got here! No matter, I was delighted with your words and wisdom. And what wonderful pictures. Your pantry is a work of art!
I look forward to stopping by again.
Thank You for sharing such powerful words! I thought about printing that !
Have a wonderful evening :)
Stephanie
I love your pantry! What wonderful and warming advice. Thank you
Hi Ruthann,
I just wanted to let you know that your blog is such a blessing to me. It warms my heart each and every time I visit. Thanks for being such an inspiration.
Blessings,
Catherine
Dear RuthAnn,
Would consider adopting me? *smile* Just kidding.
I love your pantry and the wonder-full post.
May I ask about your pantry doors…is that black paint “chalkboard” paint and the words written in chalk?
Paula
What a inspirational post, I really enjoy your take on it and I love your pantry! I hope you were safe from the storms that hit our area the other day?
Not only are your photos beautiful,
so are your words & thoughts.
I am so, so glad to find your blog.
Please write more often.
Thanks Ruthann for coming on over to my blog! My simple…no ever really visits. I am so jealous I must get a better camera or somethng to take better photos that is for sure! Bless you dear blog friend!
Robyn
I just read your blog for the first time, and it gave me such a warm fuzzy. I want to be part of your family. :) Thank you for sharing your life and being an inspiration to others. I will come back again and again.
Lori
Hi there,
My name is Julie Price, i was blessed with your blog by Catina “Cat” from Calvary Chapel Murrieta. Your son JJ went to Calvary, right? My husband and I worked there. Well, I use to work there, but we recently had our first baby.
Just wanted to say thank you for boldly sharing your love for Jesus and your family! I am so blessed by your words of wisdom! I will continue to view your blog! Thank you!
Julie Price
Hi Ruthann,
What an inspiring post. You have a warmth about you that shines through and I just love visiting your blog. I am also drooling over your pantry :)
Hugs,
Dena
Ruthann, I always enjoy your blog; your beautiful heart shines through.
Thank you!
I love your home! I love your words! I love your heart! I love that verse… He goes before us! He makes our paths straight. And sends both samaritians and prodigals along the way. We learn from both. Blessings on your gorgeous, yummy home… Polly
Hi Ruthann,
I just wanted to let you know how much you helped my sister while she was reading your blog. She is going through a very rough time right now and feels God directed her to your blog to read the scriptures in this post that she really needed to hear. It gave her great comfort and we both just wanted to say thank you!!! I love how God works, don’t you?
Teresa
i love your writing it’s so unece.love your daughter summer
You have a wonderful blog and I LOVE your pantry with the little screen door! Ca-yute!
Hello, I am new to your blog but I just had to comment. Your pantry is soo amazing and very inspriring. Thank you for sharing. Blessings Clarice
I just found your blog. I love your kitchen but more than that what a blessing were your words to me today! Your entry “A Storm is A’Comin” came straight from the Lord to my heart.
Mama Cheryl (Copperswife on Xanga) posted a link for your blog to look at your pantry.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE everything I read and saw!
*love your words
*love your warmth
*love your home
*LOVE your kitchen
*love your pantry
I just love YOU and your warmth!
Have a blessed blessed Lord’s Day!
Tamara
PS: I am hosting a Pantry Challenge Contest on my Xanga blog starting today through June 1st if you are interested. Feel free to share it. We all have things stocked for winter we need to use up and replace so we don’t have to toss expired items. Not using what the Lord has blessed us with is not honoring to Him. Frugality Rocks.
http://www.xanga.com/Divine_Diva_in_NC
Lovely post/thoughts, lovely pantry (trying to not covet those red bowls and tins and the old apron), and a lovely photo of the author. I think I’ll subscribe.
Kay in Neb.
(crediting “Copperswife” for the link to you)
FYI: Huck Finn was from Missouri – Hannibal, it sits on the Mississippi river.
I just stumbled on your blog from Katie at Harrington House. Your home is precious and your pantry is AWESOME!
I just found your blog not long ago, and I have gone to the beginning and reading to the present… I had to stop right in my tracks and comment to you what a bless and hero you are to me for saying what you are saying in your blogs… I am a Missouri Gal, displaced and trying to come home… Hubby is retiring… anyway, the point is that you are saying the things that I am ashamed I have not said to others and had the means and know that what you are saying is so true, that it hits the core of me…
I don’t know if you will ever see this, but you are a blessing, and I found your blog in Gods timing…
You Are Bless!
Just A Gal…
Hey!
I just wanted to say I found your blog a few months ago and have truly enjoyed it! I’ve loved reading it so much I’ve actually gone through and read past posts. Although I’ve never commented, as I was reading this one today, I just couldn’t help myself. I wanted to let you know how much I truly appreciate and admire your thoughts on God and how you post them for all of us to read. I remember reading a past blog you wrote on how someone said that you mentioned it too much and I thought “No way! You go girl!” I am a member of the LDS faith and as I was reading this post today, just wanted to share with you how refreshing it was to read a post about someone who values God, family, (food storage too) and motherhood just as much as I’ve been raised and taught to. The world sometimes screams otherwise, but you’ve helped remind that what I’ve been taught is what actually really counts. Thanks again!
“The Sunshine will warm your face again”…”Oh honey!!!”
:)
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Thank you for your inspiration! What a blessing! (And I love the pantry!)
This is so motivating right now!!! Especially with these frigid March temperatures and crazy winter storms. I’m so ready for spring right now I can’t wait to see some pretty yellow flowers popping out of the ground. You know, those yellow flowers that tells us spring is almost here. I saw a groundhog by the creek the other day maybe that means it will warm up and stay warm soon. :) I needed some winter time motivation! Thanks again for your wonderful blog!!!
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Merry Christmas
How inspiring and uplifting to read the words of God this noon on your blog. I took notes for future inspiration and thank you so much. God Bless you and your family.
Hi Ruthie,
I know this is an older post, but it still touches my heart. I’m coming to you blog almost daily now. It is my shot in the arm for the day. I’m so encouraged to read the scriptures and your thoughts behind them. Your encouragement to get our home an heart in order has motivated me to do just that, in between working of course. Thank you for being obedient to the Lord and sharing what God has laid on your heart. I need to learn how to make some pie!!! LOL! Hugs and God bless.
Cathy
I perceive that your beautiful home comes out of your beautiful spirit who affords you a beautiful life for you and your family….
Ecclesiastes 3:11 He hath made every thing beautiful in his time: also he hath set the world in their heart, so that no man can find out the work that God maketh from the beginning to the end.
12 I know that there is no good in them, but for a man to rejoice, and to do good in his life.
13 And also that every man should eat and drink, and enjoy the good of all his labour, it is the gift of God.
I love this site, I love your words of inspiration! I Hope to be just like you when I am grown!