26 miles across the sea, Santa Catalina is awaitin’ for me…..Santa Catalina, the Island of Romance! Well, this was our destination last week to share in the engagement celebration of our son J.J.! It was a surprise proposal that he planned for his sweetheart Tiffany, which also happened to be on his birthday (that way, he figured, she would not expect it).
J.J. invited my hubby and I, one of his best friend’s, Brian,…..
…along with several of Tiffany’s girlfriends from College, her mom and dad, and aunt and uncle. We boarded the Islander Express and headed 26 miles across the sea to the charming Island of Catalina.
J.J. and Tiffany took an earlier boat over and we took the another about an hour later….(remember it was a surprise for Tiffany!).
Just before we arrived, J.J. had rented a golf cart to take Tiff on a scenic drive overlooking Avalon Bay….
He was searching for the perfect romantic spot to ask his sweetheart for her hand in Marriage….as he rounded the curve he came upon the Bell Tower landmark and lookout point….ahhh, perfect!
It was here that J.J. got down on one knee and ask Tiffany to be his wife…
The long awaited sweet moment made even sweeter when a very nice couple was driving by and took a picture just as J.J. was proposing and offered to email them the photo…that is so awesome!
She said YES!
Meanwhile, we arrived and walked toward town to meet them later at a restaurant. The view was breathtaking. The town is so charming and full of family memories of so many summer vacations spent right here….
It doesn’t seem that long ago that J.J. and his brother Dusty and sister Ashley, along with their cousins, played on this very beach, building sand castles, wiggling toes in the cool wet sand, and splashing at the water’s edge. My father-in-law, known as Boppa to my kids, owned a vacation home with Grammy Sue, right here in the hill above the beach…..a home that was previously owned by Mrs. See of Mrs. See’s Candy Company (no there weren’t stashes of chocolates in the cupboards…I looked!). We spent our 4th of July’s here for several years with my hubby’s extended family. We even participated in the Independence Day hometown parades each year. We always had a theme and decorated our golf cart accordingly…one year our theme was “Gilligan’s Island”, I was dressed up like “Maryann”, wearing gingham and carrying a pie…my hubby was the “Professor”. Those were the good old days for sure!
It seems so fitting that J.J. would choose this romantic place, that is so dear to our hearts, to ask his beloved to spend the rest of their lives together….a beautiful place to begin their love story.
This Victorian Cottage was built in 1889 by Peter Gano, it is the third oldest building in Avalon. Unfortunately, it took him two years to build it for his fiance’ and by the time he was finished she found another love. Poor Peter! The story is told that Peter felt so scorned that he vowed “no woman shall ever step foot in my cottage”. I heard this tale during a tour of this house many years ago….and there was a lot of women walking through the rooms…good thing Peter wasn’t there!
The Wrigley Mansion sits on top of the hill…the owners were the Wrigley Spearmint Gum family.
Back to the “Engagement Story”……Tiffany called her mom to tell her the exciting news “Mom! J.J. proposed! I’m engaged!”. Little did she know her mom and all of us were just minutes away from congratulating her in person…
Mama Rose did not let on that we were all there…..
This is the whole crew,on our way to the restaurant to surprise Tiffany and celebrate this wondrous occasion. In this photo we are saying “Show us your bling Tiffany!”.
We all gathered here at Antonio’s, our old hangout, and waited for J.J. and Tiffany to arrive….
There was a whirl of emotions as they walked in….
The happy couple! (Tiffany’s daddy smiling in the back ground)
Mama Rose swooning over the ring..
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Mama Ruthie, so proud of her son! (you did good honey!)
Tiffany’s parents, Rose and Jim…I could not ask for more wonderful and loving in-laws for J.J., they love him like their own son, I’m so thankful for that!
Tiffany’s friends made these buttons for her and J.J……so cute!
Girlfriends admiring the bling!
Me and my future daughter!
After lunch we played our traditional round of miniature golf. Gary, JJ and I had an advantage since we’ve played this course so many times through the years!
We were ready for some refreshments and decided to stop at Jack’s Cafe’.
Ahhhh! Sweets for the sweet!
There were lots of nostalgic art pieces on the walls at Jack’s, this one summed up the day perfectly!
We are so thankful that the Lord brought Tiffany Rose into J.J.’s life! She is a dream come true and an answer to our prayers.
(Oh honey!)
Ever since J.J. (Jason James) was just a wee little boy we began to pray for his future and the girl he would someday marry. We prayed that the Lord would bless her, protect her, and raise her up to be a loving, compassionate, and joyful girl.
(Oh honey again!)
We prayed that she would love the Lord with all of her heart. Of course we also prayed for our J.J., that he would become a man of honor, of strong character, responsible, loving, respectful, with a good sense of humor and a heart for the Lord. God has definately answered our prayers!
It’s a wonderful thing….they are so good for each other…their future home is going to be filled with lots of love and laughter!
The Island of Romance…..a place of wonderful memories…old and new!
A funny thing happened during my trip to California….I bumped into a dear blog friend! Maryjane from The Beehive Cottage! We had never met in person, only on line. I was at In ‘n’ Out Burger (the best hamburgers EV-AH!) and she recognised my hubby and thought I must be there too…sure enough! She came up to me and said “Ruthann! I’m Maryjane from Beehive Cottage!” Wow! how fun was that! She is a doll! Her blog is just as adorable as she is…please go say “Howdy” and tell her I sent ya!
I also got to spend some time chatting with my other dear friend Sara from Sweet Magnolia Farm. We used to chat at a nearby Antique Mall, this day it was Barnes and Noble. She is one creative gal, oh my goodness she creates the most adorable farm-inspired goods for the home! You know I LoVe anything farm-y! Please stop by her farm and have a look-see at all of her fabulous farm-girl goodies! Yee Haw!
Thanks Sugar Pies for stopping by! I hope you enjoyed my little tour of Catalina Island!
Blessings and Hugs!
Aunt Ruthie
Yay!!! I love engagements!!!
That is the most romantic engagement story ever. His momma obviously raised him right! (whomever she might be)
Congratulations on gaining a daughter!
Blessings,
Nancy
Congratulations to J.J. and Tiffany! What a precious engagement party…and so incredibly special too. May God RICHLY bless their marriage for many years to come. So what are you wearing to the wedding :o)
MANY Blessings to your family,
Jen
Love the engagement story! So much thought and planning went into that moment!! I’m sure the bride-to-be will carry Avalon in her heart forever. Hmmm. Maybe a little “Ava” someday?
Congrats on the engagement and your future daughter-in-law…when’s the wedding? What an exciting year for your family…a grandchild and a new daughter, too!!!!!!!
XOXO
Joni
Sniff! SMILE! Sniff! Smile!!
What a romantic loving write … how blessed you all are to be joining together in happiness/bliss shortly. IF JJ is that thoughtful now, I can see a lifetime of fun & surprises adorning the love he has for Tiffany.
Every girls dream fantasy … Tiffany’s engagement.
Love & blessings to the darling couple ~
Happy St. Patrick’s Day
Have a wonderful weekend.
TTFN ~ Marydon
What great news for your family!! I really enjoyed this story- thanks for the wonderful post!!
Congrats to J.J. & Tiffany! Thank you for sharing your happy day with us.
♥hugs♥
Wow, what a great post! I loved to hear the story of the proposal. My son gets married in May, so I know just how you feel.
What a lovely story. You even brought tears to this sappy girl’s eyes. Thanks for sharing and God bless you and your entire family; old and new.
Thankyou for sharing this oh so beautiful news. Congratulations on this wonderful blessing to all of you. God is Great!
Congrats to the happy couple! What a terrific story you told here! Then to top it all off meeting your blogging buddy. I will scurry over to say helloo. Love to all of you!
In the picture behind your son and future daughter-in-law there is a neon sigh that says, “She said Yes!” You probably knew that, though! What a cute picture and couple!
Wheee! congratulations!!! Engagement parties are the best -or, perhaps, second best. After weddings of course!
I have a feeling we may expect a new theme here on the blog :-)
Love the sweet engagement story! Very romantic! My word verification is to joined, how appropriate!
Congratulations!
I grew up in So. Cal but only went to Catalina 1 time!
I wish I had spent more time there!
Congrats!!! She is beautiful. You taught J.J. right! How romantic. George was going to ask me to marry him at the Crow’s Nest at the wharf in Santa Cruz, but . . . too many people in the resturant, and the waiter was well. . . that’s another story! Would you believe a Hardware Store?!!!! It must have worked. 30 years and still going strong!!!
Love you- Happy Planning on being the Mother in Love! (instead of mother – in – law)
Cuz’
Thanks for sharing this moment with all of us! Such a beautiful couple :)
Congratulations on the addition to the family! She’s a cutie :-)
Hooooray & congratulations!!!! So much excitement over there, and Catalina is beautiful!
CONGRATS to the whole family. She sounds lovely and will be such a asset to your already lovely family.
That is such a sweet engagement story! Beautiful Island too. :-0
What a wonderful way to start my day Ruthie!!! Still feeling your joy bubbling over in my heart ‘n tummy : ). But I have to say a little gasp rang out when I saw your last name on those clever little buttons. Could it be that you’re related to my sweet Anne’s dear sweet Kevin she lost just a few years ago??? They worked together at Rock & Water Scapes in Lake Forest here in California. They called it The Rock : ). So very much in love and had so much fun together. They weren’t married very long when they received the awful, awful news that he had cancer, and is now with his/our (sweet, sweet) Lord. Just had a wonderful thought…even if you’re not related, we’re all related in Him and look forward…on tippy toes…to being together again someday soon : ). love ‘n blessings
Great news! I’m glad that she said, yes! What fun you must all have had. It’s wonderful to see the fruition of years of prayer, too.
And how nice that you “bumped into” Maryjane. Funny that she recognized your hubby first!
Congratulations on your new addition to your family!!! How wonderful! :D
P.S. Speaking of addition to your family, Biz and I have been talking, and we would like to give your new grandbaby some special items we make in our shop as a BIG “Thank you” to you! You bless our hearts with your love, encouragement, and godly wisdom you give in each of your posts! We want to bless you as you have blessed us! :D
Please contact us through our email.
God continue to bless you and your family!
~ Heather from Bizy Janes
I’m so happy for you all! Weddings are such fun celebrations. I have been praying for my children and their future spouses too, so I’m hoping that God really blesses them in a similar way! I love that JJ had you all come to surprise her. You would be the most fun mother in law so that sweet girl is very lucky!!
Thanks for sharing all the fun with us!
Blessings,
Sasha
Congratulations to J.J. and Tiffany! What a wonderful way to celebrate :)
Your pictures of Catalina brought back so many memories for me. Just like your family, we used to go there all the time. I loved their taffy and have never had anything that tasted as good.
Oh and you also gave me a craving for See’s Candy! How I would love to eat a Bordeaux right this minute… yum!
Congratulations again :)
rue
Gee-ma-nee, Ruth Ann! My family would think I’m nuts as I wipe happy tears away after experiencing this post of yours! You did an amazing job of capturing the joy, surprise, love and thanksgiving when you wrote this. Thanks for sharing ;)
Oh I LOVE Catalina! I grew up in Thousand Oaks and we would go over to Avalon almost every summer…it is such a romantic and charming place. What a fun place to propose and start a marriage out right! Congratulations!
Ruthie, that was so sweet! Aren’t you so happy to share in the important days of your children’s lives? It is a blessing for sure!
Thanks for sharing the delightful day with all of us!
Congratulations… what a lovely time you had.
Sarah x
What a beautiful trip! Living in So Cal all my life, I’ve still never been to Catalina Island…I may have to make the trip. Very best wishes for the lovely couple on their engagement and may they have endless years of joy and good fortune…
How wonderful…and what a perfect way and place to do it all…thanks for sharing these sweet moments! Come say hi sometime :D
I just happened by from a google alert — very nice blog and very sweet story! Here’s the perfect little gift: “A Short Guide to a Happy Marriage” (Boston Globe #1 pick)!
Oh, my! An engagement and a new baby coming ~ what an exciting year this will be :)
Congratulations to JJ and Tiffany and to you and your hubby for gaining a new daughter! What a wonderful time in your lives! He will be a wonderful husband and I pray they have MANY years of happiness and blessings in their marriage. My daughter got engaged last Aug. so we have been busy planning her wedding too! This has been a WONDERFUL, fun time for us! When is your wedding? Ours is in Sept.!!!! Blessings to all! XO, Pinky
of course, she did! who wouldn’t want
to marry that handsome young man….
and his wonderful family.
congratulations!
i can’t stop squealing and smiling!!!! That is so exciting!!! They are so perfect together, God truly does answer prayers.
God bless,
Sarah Miriam
Oh Ruthann I am so happy for you and your family! For those who honor Him will be blessed !
I will also continue to pray for my daughter’s future husband and thank you for the confirmation of the importance of a praying mother!
Sweet so sweet are His ways!
Aunt Ruthie, I shared this wonderful story with my almost 10 year old, Savannah. She and I responded as though your JJ were part of our family! Yeah!!! It was a great lesson in how to become a woman of character and wait to find the man God has given! Congratulations to all of you! Love and blessings to all!
Thank you,for your story,and the beautiful pictures!!It made me feel,as if we know eachother.Love and greetings to you and your family.Sylvia from holland!
You are an angel Aunt Ruthie!
Having a close family is a true blessing! I must say- We are both blessed with this gift!
Thank you for sharing such a happy time with us.
Have a great day,
Leslie
True Mountain Women :.)
“No one can ruin your day without YOUR permission” – unknown author but true!
Oooo..Congratulations! What a nice looking couple they make :) Thanks for sharing their story with us.
Smiles, DianeM
Congratulations! Wow! You are having a wonderfully blessed year Ruthie! God is so good! I love how you all gathered there to celebrate the engagement and surrounded the couple with your blessings of their marriage and love. I’m a hopeless romantic so I thoroughly enjoyed reading of your news. Can you say a prayer for those of us still looking for that godly partner in marriage? And grandbabies for our family as well? You’re a testimony of God’s love and blessings. Hugs!!
CONGRATS!!!
A beautiful Christian couple that will have a Christian Home!!!
Winners for sure,
d
Congratulations to J.J. and Tiffani! When I saw all of you at In ‘n Out, he sure had a big smile on his face! Wonderful, wonderful! They are a darling couple and I know they will be blessed with a beautiful marriage!
Ruthann, it was so fun running into you! You just made my day, week, year! Oh how I wish we had met when we lived just 3 blocks from each other! You are so darling inside and out and I hope to met up with you again! Your blog has been a blessing in my life! You have changed my life forever!
Love,
Masryjane
Well congratulations J.J. and Tiffany!
May God shine His face radiantly on this union and bless it abundantly throughout your years together, and may you both grow closer to the Lord and keep Him front and center always!
What a sweet engagement story! You brought him up good, didn’t you! What a wonderful memory for you all! :)
Congratulations to J.J. and Tiffany, and to your whole family!!! They make a very cute couple. Thank you for sharing their sweet engagement story. :o)
Aunt Ruthie . . . I am sooooo happy for you. JJ & Tiffany are a darling couple . . . gracious . . . your life is changing fast with all the new “love-in-laws” and grandbabies heading your way!
Hugs & Blessings,
Brenda
Hi Aunt Ruthie….Congratulations are your most exciting event…you all look so familiar. I couldn’t find what area you all live in. We love Catalina also. I assume you live close as you took the local charter boat to Catalina. Hope to run into you all…another from Southern Ca. Blessings, Ginny
What wonderful news! Such a romantic & special proposal, I know they’ll remember that day for the rest of their lives!! Such a blessing for the whole family too :). Many congratulations to J.J. & Tiffany!!! May the Lord bless you as you begin your new life together!
Congratulations! They are a sweet, good lookin’ couple!
God Bless you all!
Congratulations to all of you. Gary, Ruthann,JJ and Tiffany.
ekkkkkkkkkkkk!!!!!!!!! my oh my…i am crying at your sweet lil’ romantic story! Yay JJ aya Tiffany…blessings!
congrats….family!!! my dear sweetheart …i miss you…I am so happy at your wonderful trip! I am so sad i couldn’t …i just couldn’t…i haven’t even herd your message…i am so sad i hope i haven’t missed too much! i will give you a call…thanks for your understanding…my heart is full of joy dear sweet friend for your excitin’ news! blessings
awesome news! thanks for sharing RuthAnn
How exciting for your entire family. Congrats to “gaining another daughter.” Enjoy the adventure of the wedding.
Betty G.
Congratulatons! and thanks for sharing your happiness for us all to enjoy!
awwww what a SWEET engagement story! i love that you were all included in their special day!!! we were on catalina island a few years ago and enjoyed our couple of days there. congrats and blessings to your family!!!!
Congatulations!!
Congrats and blessing to all!
Thanks for sharing this memorable experience with all of us!!!
How wonderful that it was a holistic family event – where both sides were embraced and included! Sadly, not all engagements and weddings are like that, no matter how much your heart is open. or how much you prayed for your child’s future spouse. You are one blessed mama of a son! My oldest son married last June. My June posts lead up to his marriage. You might enjoy this one:
http://bluecottonmemory.wordpress.com/2009/06/20/prayer-for-my-sons-wife/
Congratulations! You have a beautiful family and are truly blessed. I am having a giveaway drop by if you can ;-)
Woohoo! Congrats JJ and Tiffany! Lots of good things happening this year for your family!
Hi Ruth! I have been reading your blog for about 1 year now and really enjoy it!! Here is an interesting story – my son’s girlfriend had a picture of a young man on his knees proposing to a young lady on her Facebook page. I love to see proposal pics so when I zoomed in, I thought that the young man looked sooo familiar yet I couldn’t place him. Well, to make a long story short, it was your J.J.!! I had seen your family pics on your blog and that’s where I had seen him before!! It turns out that his fiance and my son’s girlfriend are friends and went to Cal Baptist together! What a small world!! They are a darling couple and I can imagine you are thrilled beyond words. Congratulations to them!! What a blessing!
Congratulations to you and your family Ruthie! Such a blessing that all of you could share in this special event. What a year you are having so far!!
How very sweet – it made me get a bit teary! We had our own special engagement last year with an August wedding. Our ‘wedding story’ also began many years ago with prayers for both the bride and groom. We didn’t know her yet but God surely did!
Congratulations on the new addition to your family. It’s such a blessing when your parents love your spouse like they love you. I am sure this post means a lot to your son.
My hubby and I are celebrating our one-year anniversary at Avalon this year! Love Catalina Island.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! I want you to know…I cried! This was so sweet!! God is so good and He will give us the desires of our heart! My sweet daughter Nicole was recently engaged and now he(Jeromy) is in Kuwait for military duty. A tentative date is June or July for the wedding!!
Spring has sprung!!!
God Bless you sista!!
all i got is a big ol’….WOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!
Dear Aunt Ruthie,
I am so excited for J.J. and Tiffany. They make such a cute pair! Thanks for sharing this special time with your blogland girlfriends.You will get a kick out of this… I had my twenty-two year old single son come read all about how J.J. popped the question. I told him he might get some ideas for when the Lord brings someone special in his life. Isn’t love GRAND!!!! Have a great week!
Love,
Donna
Congratulations. Wonderful entry, beautiful pictures and yes liked the two blogs you shared of your friends.. Can’t wait to see the wedding pictures.
Many congratulations to your son and his fiance, and you and your family as you celebrate this wonderful event! Praise our God from whom all blessings flow : )
ps- thank you for sharing your heart for the Lord and your heart for home through this blog! You have made evident the abundant vitality and beauty that come from the simple, ordinary tasks involved in keeping house and creating home for ourselves and those we love.
The thought of you and your attitude toward home-keeping have inspired me in moments when I’ve felt discouraged about tackling housework. You inspire me to light a candle, put on some music, get moving, and most importantly shift my attitude and remember that keeping house is something to take joy in! Thank you again, for what you do, Aunt Ruthie!
Many congratulations to your son and his fiance, and to you and your family as you celebrate this wonderful event! Praise our God from whom all blessings flow!
ps- Thank you for sharing your heart for the Lord and your heart for home through this blog! You have made evident the abundant vitality and beauty that come from the simple, ordinary tasks involved in keeping house and creating home for ourselves and those we love.
The thought of you and your attitude toward home-keeping have inspired me in moments when I’ve felt down and discouraged about tackling housework. You inspire me to light a candle, put on some music, get moving, and most importantly shift my attitude and remember that keeping house is something to take joy in! Thank you again for what you do, Aunt Ruthie!
Love in Him,
Ashley
Tears!!! What a wonderful, wonderful memory. Happy Engagement!
oh my goodness! what a great surprise! i enjoyed reading all about it! congrats to your son and bride-to-be!!!
Congrats to you and your family on your son’s engagement! What a beautiful place to propose. Well your family is just growing by leaps and bounds now, lol! What a wonderful time for you all, it is so exciting to read all about it. Happy Spring!
Dee
Thank you mom for posting that special day. No doubt in my mind you are the BEST mom in the world. I love you. Thank you all for your best wishes for me and Tiffany!
I loved the love story. The pictures, the narrative, the story re in’n’0ut burger and the blog friend and I really just love your posts. Isn’t a blessing when we love the one our kids love? PS I remained in Kansas for spring break and received snow as my reward!
what a celebration and memory!
your family looks so fun.
thank you for the inspiration you
give us all.
blessings,
lea
Awwww…. how sweet …and beautiful! Thanks for sharing.
Susan
Congrats. You look like her sister hehe :-) . What a wonderful story
X
I just found you by accident this morning and have been enjoying reading your website. How exciting for your family that your son is now engaged. I lived in So. California for about 10 years and never visited Catalina the whole time I lived there – then on a later visit to a friend we went over for the day. What a treat! My oldest son plans to get engaged this summer. When he does, I’ll come back and let you know how he plans to do it! I don’t want to post it now, just in case “someone” finds out and it spoils the surprise. Blessings!!!
I just found you this morning by accident and have been enjoying reading your posts. I lived in So. Cal. for 10 years but never visited Catalina while living there. Then on a later visit to a dear friend, we went over for the day – and what a wonderful, enchanting place it is! How exciting for your family for your son to be engaged and in the special way he did it. My oldest son (I have 3) will be getting engaged this summer and he plans to surprise his girlfriend as well. I will come back and let you know how it happens but don’t want to “publish” it now in case someone found it and it ruined the surprise. Blessings.
I just found you this morning by accident and have been enjoying reading your posts. I lived in So. California for 10 years, but never visited Catalina Island while living there. Then on a later visit to a dear friend, we went over for the day! What a wonderful, enchanting place it is. How exciting for your family that your son proposed there. My oldest son (I have 3) is planning on proposing to his girlfriend this summer in a special way. I will come back once he does it in case someone found out it was here and I spoiled the surprise. Blessings to you & your family.
Oh Aunt Ruthie, this brought tears to my eyes. Especially the part where you’ve been praying for your future daughter-in-law for years. (And, of course, been praying for your dear son and all the character qualities you hoped the Lord was building in him :)). Congratulations to your whole family; what a blessing! And how sweet that you were all able to be there to celebrate with them. And the unexpected surprise of passersby catching it on film! Wow. My son proposed to his sweetie last summer (on top of Half Dome at Yosemite) and had invited our family and his sweetie’s family to camp at Yosemite too, so we were likewise all able to celebrate together. Such a sweet moment, and such a testament to the power of what the Lord can do when He is present in a home and building strong families with a firm foundation of love. Wishing you and your family all the best as you continue to expand! (The family, not you, personally ;) )
Yep that was an awesome post! Like a movie!!! SO ROMANTIC…BuT…I’m just waitin’ on a new post…I know we ALL are looking forward to it! :) You DO know Sugar Pie is the best blog/site EVA!!, don’t ya?! and it makes us SMILE when we see you have something new to share. It’s always a special blessing to read. Thanks Ruthie!!!
PERFECT!
Oh what a wonderful exciting family day and thanks for sharing it with me and all your blog readers. I have always wanted to visit the island and your photos really make me want to plan a trip soon. I loved how you put JJs younger photos at the end of the post. Where does the time go? Isn’t life a wonderful journey!
Joyce
Ruthann: I am so happy for your son and future daughter-in-law! I wish them much happiness and years together! Thank you for sharing your pictures with us! Such a wonderful day for you and your family and extended family too!